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Integrating the latest in attachment theory and research into the use of EMDR.

Much has been written about trauma and neglect and the damage they do to the developing brain. But little has been written or researched about the potential to heal these attachment wounds and address the damage sustained from neglect or poor parenting in early childhood. This book presents a therapy that focuses on precisely these areas. Laurel Parnell, leader and innovator in the field of eye-movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR), offers us a way to embrace two often separate worlds of knowing: the science of early attachment relationships and the practice of healing within an EMDR framework. This beautifully written and clinically practical book combines attachment theory, one of the most dynamic theoretical areas in psychotherapy today, with EMDR to teach therapists a new way of healing clients with relational trauma and attachment deficits.

Readers will find science-based ideas about how our early relationships shape the way the mind and brain develop from our young years into our adult lives. Our connections with caregivers induce neural circuit firings that persist throughout our lives, shaping how we think, feel, remember, and behave. When we are lucky enough to have secure attachment experiences in which we feel seen, safe, soothed, and secure—the “four S’s of attachment” that serve as the foundation for a healthy mind—these relational experiences stimulate the neuronal activation and growth of the integrative fibers of the brain.

EMDR is a powerful tool for catalyzing integration in an individual across several domains, including memory, narrative, state, and vertical and bilateral integration. In Laurel Parnell’s attachment-based modifications of the EMDR approach, the structural foundations of this integrative framework are adapted to further catalyze integration for individuals who have experienced non-secure attachment and developmental trauma.

The book is divided into four parts. Part I lays the groundwork and outlines the five basic principles that guide and define the work. Part II provides information about attachment-repair resources available to clinicians. This section can be used by therapists who are not trained in EMDR. Part III teaches therapists how to use EMDR specifically with an attachment-repair orientation, including client preparation, target development, modifications of the standard EMDR protocol, desensitization, and using interweaves. Case material is used throughout. Part IV includes the presentation of three cases from different EMDR therapists who used attachment-focused EMDR with their clients. These cases illustrate what was discussed in the previous chapters and allow the reader to observe the theoretical concepts put into clinical practice—giving the history and background of the clients, actual EMDR sessions, attachment-repair interventions within these sessions and the rationale for them, and information about the effects of the interventions and the course of treatment.

12 reviews for Attachment-Focused EMDR: Healing Relational Trauma

  1. Arh
    (12)
    August 5, 2023
    Exceptional EMDR Resource
    If you are EMDR Trained and are working on EMDR Certification, this is an exceptional emdr resource. It is like having a conversation with the author....More
    If you are EMDR Trained and are working on EMDR Certification, this is an exceptional emdr resource. It is like having a conversation with the author. She answers every question you start to think to ask and responds to questions you will need answers to. It's very detailed, specific examples, resourcing scripts, and I really like the case study examples. Her use of EMDR attachment techniques are insightful, beneficial and practical.
    Helpful? 2 0
    SMJ
    (12)
    February 7, 2019
    Great resource
    This is a great resource for EMDR practitioners working with attachment issues. I am really finding the practice of tapping in resource figures with t...More
    This is a great resource for EMDR practitioners working with attachment issues. I am really finding the practice of tapping in resource figures with the client helpful.
    Helpful? 4 0
    TerryAnn
    (12)
    February 25, 2018
    Five Stars
    Game changer. Puts it all together and presents a workable path forward through use of EMDR.
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    George Mosby
    (12)
    April 7, 2017
    A very thorough and inspiring book about adding "interweaves" such ...
    A very thorough and inspiring book about adding "interweaves" such as protector or rescuer figures or other remedial attachment figures to support peo...More
    A very thorough and inspiring book about adding "interweaves" such as protector or rescuer figures or other remedial attachment figures to support people undergoing EMDR therapy who need greater internal support systems to rely upon.
    Helpful? 5 0
    Nighthawk
    (12)
    January 14, 2017
    I am not able to offer a review of the book itself but the friend was quite pleased to have received it as an aid in their ...
    Was a gift for an MFT friend. I am not able to offer a review of the book itself but the friend was quite pleased to have received it as an aid in th...More
    Was a gift for an MFT friend. I am not able to offer a review of the book itself but the friend was quite pleased to have received it as an aid in their practice.
    Helpful? 0 0
    Philomena Moriarty
    (12)
    June 16, 2016
    Four Stars
    A must for EMDR therapists
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    Jack Silvey
    (12)
    September 21, 2015
    book has great insights and is spot on removes a lot of ...
    am layperson EMDR enthusiast, have read many books and practiced on myself, book has great insights and is spot onremoves a lot of the unnecessary cli...More
    am layperson EMDR enthusiast, have read many books and practiced on myself, book has great insights and is spot on

    removes a lot of the unnecessary clinical pieces, makes the counselling more approachable and flexible
    Helpful? 7 0
    Anne BC
    (12)
    February 14, 2015
    I am particularly happy she has written this one from an attachment focused ...
    Laura Parnell is an extremely talented therapist/healer. I am grateful to have attended her workshops and for her open sharing her work in her books. ...More
    Laura Parnell is an extremely talented therapist/healer. I am grateful to have attended her workshops and for her open sharing her work in her books. I am particularly happy she has written this one from an attachment focused perspective. Very insightful, with an abundance of helpful ideas for therapists who use EMDR.
    Helpful? 5 0
    Anthony Freire
    (12)
    October 24, 2014
    Great read and gives you a greater understanding of how ...
    Great read and gives you a greater understanding of how to bring attachment theory into your EMDR sessions.... a must read for any EMDR therapist who ...More
    Great read and gives you a greater understanding of how to bring attachment theory into your EMDR sessions.... a must read for any EMDR therapist who deals with patients experiencing any kind of attachments issues.
    Helpful? 4 0
    Kathy
    (12)
    July 16, 2014
    I am happy to find a way to integrate attachment theory concepts ...
    This book gives effective and concrete tools to utilize with clients, especially ones who need more resourcing / front end work before being able to p...More
    This book gives effective and concrete tools to utilize with clients, especially ones who need more resourcing / front end work before being able to process complex traumas. I am happy to find a way to integrate attachment theory concepts with EMDR. Laurel Parnell is amazing!
    Helpful? 10 0
    Sandy
    (12)
    February 16, 2014
    An excellent tool for blending two important modalities for healing one of the most prevalent problems!
    Bringing EMDR and Attachment Theory together seems to be a stroke of genius. I keep seeing statistics that claim that about 50% of the population is '...More
    Bringing EMDR and Attachment Theory together seems to be a stroke of genius. I keep seeing statistics that claim that about 50% of the population is 'securely attached,' but I have my doubts - from the amount of relationship difficulties I've experienced, and witnessed in so many others, I think that figure is way too optimistic. We need as many tools as we can get to help folks learn how to 'do' relationship a whole lot more mutually satisfyingly...
    Helpful? 16 0
    SR
    (12)
    January 13, 2014
    Clearly written and a pleasure to read
    Thank you for a comprehensive overview of attachment focused EMDR! What a gift to our profession and to our clients who need healing from childhood n...More
    Thank you for a comprehensive overview of attachment focused EMDR! What a gift to our profession and to our clients who need healing from childhood neglect and/or emotional abandonment.
    Sincerely,
    Sonja Rudie, MA, LMHC, CSAT
    Bellevue, WA
    Helpful? 3 0
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