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Surviving a Borderline Parent is the first step-by-step guide for adult children of parents with borderline personality disorder.

Between 6 and 10 million people in the US suffer from borderline personality disorder. This book teaches adult children how to overcome the devastating effects of growing up with a parent who suffers from BPD.

Although relatively common, borderline personality disorder (BPD) is often overlooked or misdiagnosed by therapists and clinicians and denied by those who suffer from it.

Symptoms of this problem include unpredictability, violence and uncontrollable anger, deep depression and self-abuse. Parents with BPD are often unable to provide for the basic physical and emotional needs of their children. In an ironic and painful role reversal, BPD parents can actually raise children to be their caretakers. They may burden even very young children with adult responsibilities.

If you were raised by a BPD parent, your childhood was a volatile and painful time. This book, the first written specifically for children of borderline parents, offers step-by-step guidance to understanding and overcoming the lasting effects of being raised by a person suffering from this disorder. Discover specific coping strategies for dealing with issues common to children of borderline parents: low self-esteem, lack of trust, guilt, and hypersensitivity. Make the major decision whether to confront your parent about his or her condition.

13 reviews for Surviving a Borderline Parent: How to Heal Your Childhood Wounds and Build Trust, Boundaries, and Self-Esteem

  1. john olcsvay
    (13)
    August 28, 2023
    4.0 out of 5 stars Good book
    Worked for me, I use it with a client
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    Mr. Medium
    (13)
    January 26, 2020
    4.0 out of 5 stars Good luck to your kids...
    I bought this for my kids so they could figure out their mother.
    Helpful? 2 0
    gpaulgar
    (13)
    April 1, 2015
    4.0 out of 5 stars A Must-read for anyone whose parent has symptoms of borderline personality disorder
    This book can be helpful for anyone who has a parent with the puzzling, distressing, exhausting diagnosis of borderline personality disorder. It can ...More
    This book can be helpful for anyone who has a parent with the puzzling, distressing, exhausting diagnosis of borderline personality disorder. It can help an individual go from hating his parent to a basic understanding that his parent has a brain disorder. It can help with the extreme issues of love/hate from a parent. It can help to stop thinking one's parent is evil, manipulative and cruel. It brings a new freedom to the adult child of a parent with borderline personality disorder.
    Helpful? 4 0
    Sladania
    (13)
    March 5, 2015
    4.0 out of 5 stars ... found this highly relevant and it gave me some good tools to work through emotional baggage
    I found this highly relevant and it gave me some good tools to work through emotional baggage, thus it was practical in nature. I didn't finish it tho...More
    I found this highly relevant and it gave me some good tools to work through emotional baggage, thus it was practical in nature. I didn't finish it though - not because I didn't like it - I guess I started to work through things in a different way or something like that.
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